In the space of just one week, Mulungushi University has been struck by two heartbreaking cases of su!c!de involving students. These tragic events have shaken the entire campus community, sparking deep concern and urgent conversations about the pressures faced by young people in higher education.
University life is often painted as a time of growth, opportunity, and discovery. Yet, for many students, it also comes with immense pressure — academic challenges, financial struggles, social expectations, and the fear of failure. When these challenges become overwhelming, some students may feel trapped and alone, believing that su!c!de is the only escape.
These recent cases are a wake-up call for both students and parents. It is a painful reminder that behind every smile, there might be silent battles being fought.
A Call to Students
To every student: **your life matters more than any grade or course**. Failing a course or encountering setbacks is not the end of your future — it is simply part of the learning journey. Instead of carrying the burden in silence, reach out. Share your struggles with trusted friends, mentors, lecturers, or counselors. Speaking up is not a sign of weakness; it is an act of courage that can save a life.
There are always people willing to listen and support you — do not isolate yourself. A failed exam, a delayed graduation, or a financial hurdle is temporary, but your life is permanent and precious.
### A Message to Parents and Guardians
Parents must also reflect on how they respond to their children’s challenges. Too often, students fear opening up because they worry about being judged, mocked, or compared to others. This silence can deepen their distress.
Encouragement, patience, and unconditional love are critical. When a child struggles, it is not the time to criticize — it is the time to reassure them that setbacks are part of growth. A failed course should never be treated as a failed life. Instead, parents should remind their children that resilience and determination are more important than perfection.
### Moving Forward Together,
Higher learning institutions, must strengthen mental health awareness and provide accessible counseling services for its students. But beyond institutional support, the wider community has a role to play. Friends should check on friends. Families should foster open conversations about mental health. Society should work to remove the stigma that surrounds seeking help.
The loss of two young lives in such a short time is a tragedy that must not be repeated. Together — through compassion, openness, and encouragement — we can create an environment where no student feels alone in their struggles.
**If you are a student reading this, know that you are not alone. Your dreams, your potential, and your life are worth fighting for.**
By Kaponda shadrick Mulungushi university 4th year electrical and electronics engineering student.+260 97 0368833